Brandy opens her home full of Christmas cheer and full of sparkle, which makes a perfect backdrop for an evening of ladies, laughter and connection, a gathering of friends wrapped in the warmth of festive cheer.

It's that time of year again for Christmas at Leeds Castle, being a Sunday it was quite busy, especially full of children.This year, the theme is JM Barrie’s Peter Pan for a Christmas adventure, you can meet the charters, as the leading charters give performances of the story. In effect, it's causing a problem with queuing! Don't get me wrong, it's entertaining!

For years, Leeds Castle had been a familiar haunt, a place of tranquil gardens and historic grandeur. Yet, somehow, the legendary fireworks display remained an elusive spectacle on my mental checklist. “One day,” I'd always thought, until the realisation dawned that “one day” often became “never.” This year, with fewer grand displays lighting up the autumn sky, the decision was made: today was the day.

Ann Summers had always occupied an intriguing yet slightly intimidating space in my imagination. The name conjured stereotypical visions of a dimly lit, secretive adult shop—a place where one entered and progressively descended into a murky world of shadows and whispered transactions. This expectation, however, made the reality of my recent visit all the more delightful. I had decided to treat myself to a beautiful new lingerie set, a genuine self-indulgence intended to elevate my small collection of nice items.

Even for those who aren't typically Halloween enthusiasts, the spooky season often provides the perfect excuse to dive headfirst into party mode. It's a night where a few friends, dressed in their ghoulish best, gather for an evening of revelry or hiding behind the sofa, watching a horror movie.The night inevitably unfolds with a round of shots — a decision often regretted by morning — that is, if the drinks don't run out first, followed swiftly by the snacks. But there's always the fallback of a late-night takeaway to save the day.

Nestled in the tranquil heart of the Kent Downs, within an Area of Outstanding Natural Beauty, lies The Smithy – a charming 17th-century conversion in the quiet hamlet of Bodsham. This detached, single-storey cottage masterfully blends its rich historical character with high-standard, modern comforts, offering an idyllic escape amidst a rolling landscape of fields and woodlands.

Brandy B's fourth anniversary was an absolute triumph, striking the perfect balance between a relaxed atmosphere and vibrant social interaction, making it an ideal haven for us girls. The theme was the Raging 1920s. I was excited, as I had acquired my dress and matching accessories, including 1920s-style shoes, which I believe were actual dance shoes due to their sole and clasp.

The sun did shine, for a while, a welcome change after days of grey. It was good to see the ladies again; life had been a whirlwind of commitments lately, stealing away precious time for connection.

I thought I would update you, having some massive bills to pay, car repairs (£900) and electric (£450) which impacts on spending for Julie, as in not buying stuff and going out. And the (£180) for the holiday, so I have to be a bit frugal on spending.

Tea at Brandshatch place hotel, a warm spring afternoon, time to dust off the summer dresses, I almost forgot I had the one pictured, another event got cancelled last year and was put in the wardrobe for another time. Time to shine!

Time to clear the cobwebs, have you noticed something bin the air? No, not Spring, but people getting fed up with the current situation? Paying more for less, short tempers, tiredness, etc…